(This post is especially directed towards teens and young adults, but can apply to anyone.)
I want to create this post so that the readers will take a closer look at themselves, identify what negative internal factors, any negative external influences, are taking precedent in their lives, and hopefully take steps to eradicate it. I look back on my own teenage and young adult years and wish that I had had someone to instill in me the beginnings of the self-confidence and character that I have today. Would I have made better choices? Would I have been a better parent? Those are the kinds of questions that I want you, the reader, to ask yourself after reading this.
Teenagers and young adults have more temptations thrust in front of them, have more expectations of them, more exposure to the world, and more decisions facing them more in today's time than in any other time in history. In an effort to be accepted by peers, survive painful relationships, get through school, or pursue a future of happiness, young people can fall into traps that lead them away from a positive, constructive life.
Most young adults look at their immediate world, and think they are imprisoned by their parents, their school system, their job, their peers, their social status, or their life in general. When the negative feelings prevail, it is very easy to become entrapped into an exaggerated view of themselves, which causes an unfulfilled life.
In the video above, the dot flits around with what looks like freedom in the life of the squiggle. She is constantly being entertained, but not by the squiggle. He is simply the instigator in the type of entertainment she has, not the source of it.
People like this are always seeking something to placate themselves for the moment. On the outside, they are full of life, but on the inside, they are miserable. There is no thought for the future, only the instant gratification that can be had at that moment. While they are having 'fun', being the 'life of the party', all is good. But once the 'high' is over, they crash. They have nothing in their foundation to sustain them.
Do you know anyone like this? Go to school with them? Work with them? In a relationship with them? Or, are you this person? Is your life chaotic and out of control?
Scripture tells us that God is not the author of confusion, but of peace. (1Cor. 14:33) If chaos, confusion and disorganization is prevalent in your life, it might be time to take a closer look to see 'who' is actually ruling your life. And, if it is not God, then there is only one other choice.
Meanwhile, as the dot is propelled aimlessly around by the squiggle, the line is looking at himself more closely. He realizes that he is rigid, stiff, and inflexible, and that makes him boring to those around him. Particularly, to the dot.
People like this are usually strict, legalistic in the beliefs, unoriginal in their thought process, daily life, and the treatment of others. They get their enjoyment in life by following schedules, being ritualistic, and planning their life so meticulously that there is no room for spontaneity.
Do you know anyone like this? Your parents? Your boss? Coworkers? Yourself? Is your life so planned out that you have no time to for others? Are you so focused on your routine that you fails to see the needs of those around you?
Scripture tells us to be careful about following ritual and ceremony so strictly that we lose sight of the real meaning behind our actions. Jesus spoke to the Pharisees, the religious sect in his time, about their attitudes concerning others in regards to themselves. And they bind heavy burdens and place them on the shoulders of men, but they are
not willing to touch them with their fingers. (Matthew23:4)
If your life is ruled by rituals and schedules that have to be adhered to no matter what, the maybe you have become a robot, and are so automated that any humanity you once had is gone.
But, the line knows he has to change if he wants to have a chance to show the dot his love. Isn't that the way of us all? We're content to live life just floating along until someone or something comes along that makes us feel the very thing that we are lacking.
The line makes some changes, going off in a different direction. He is so excited that he could do it that he goes overboard, getting himself in a huge tangle. He realizes that without some order and discipline, he could look and act as unpredictable as the squiggle.
So, he hones his skills, develops his talents, and with a positive attitude, is able to bend himself into beautiful, ornate designs. He learns that 'freedom is not a license for chaos.' He decides that his God-given talents are too good to be squandered by putting on a show. He learns that he can express himself in any shape he wishes.
Scripture tells us, through the writings of Paul, that all things are lawful, or permitted, but not all things are expedient, or beneficial. (1Cor. 10:23) So, there is no point in doing things just because you can. If there is no benefit to yourself, or to others, then it becomes vain glory, which is equally detrimental to your peace.
When the line presents himself to the dot, she is amazed by his newly-acquired abilities. At once, she has a direct comparison with the organized beauty of the line to that of the chaotic state of the squiggle. She also realizes that what she thought was freedom was actually 'anarchy and sloth', or disorder and laziness. She now saw his flaws; flaws that were an intricate part of his character, and not just a phase he was going through. Let all things be done decently and in order. (1 Cor. 14:40)
The dot had thought she was free because that was what the squiggle wanted her to think. As long as she thought she was free, she was under his control. Therefore, she was actually his slave. Freedom is not present if you are bound by the whims and desires of someone else, whether it is an actual person, or whether it comes through your own thinking. You can only be free when you are allowed to express yourself through the person who truly sets you free, and that is Jesus Christ. Jesus answered them, Truly, truly, I say to you, Whoever commits sin is the
servant of sin. If the Son therefore shall make you free, you shall be free indeed. (Matthew 8:34,36)
